Feb 5, 2009


Love is for me....

I can surrender to love and still preserve my independence. When I worry about losing myself in love, it usually means that my sense of personal identity is fragile.

I do not surrender myself to the other person; I surrender to my feelings for the other person. It is a disastrous error to think that I will lose or gain my identity in a relationship. I do not approach relationships with the belief that love can fill vacuum of identity. Love is for people who know who they are. Loving and appreciating and knowing ourselves helps us to love another.

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